缘分 一季 一世 (中英文)

(又译作:你生活中的人们)

作者Author： Brian A. Drew Chalker

翻译Translator： 邱敦莲

 

人们因为某种缘故走进你的生活，

有的只是一季，

有的一生相随。

当你明白这一点，

你就知道应该怎么做。

 

有人因为某种缘故走进你的生活，

常常是为了满足你所表达的某种内在的或者外在的需要。

他们指引你、支持你，

为你提供物质上、情感上和精神上的帮助，

协助你度过难关。

似乎他们是受了上帝的旨意而来，

他们确实就是上帝派来的！

在你需要的时候，

他们就出现在那里。

 

然后，当你并未做错什么，

或者在某个不合时宜的时候，

这个人会说些什么或者做些什么，

从而结束了你们之间的关系。

有时候是因为他们死去了，

有时候是他们走开了，

有时候是他们采取了某种行动

迫使你作出表态。

 

我们必须明白，

我们的所需已得到满足,

我们的愿望已经实现，

他们的工作已经完成了。

你的祈愿已经得到回应。

现在该是上路继续前行的时候了。

 

有人在某个季节走进你的生活，

这是因为

现在,应该是你，

与他们一起分享、一起成长、一起学习的时候。

他们可能带给你平和的经历，

或者使你开怀大笑。

也可能他们教会你从来未曾做过的事，

他们常常会带给你难以置信的无穷的欢乐。

相信吧！这一切都是真实的。

但是，却只有短短的一季。

 

持续一生的关系会令你终生受益。

你必须依靠这种关系,

建立牢固的感情基础。

你要做的是接受经验，

为他们付出一生的关爱，

并且将你所学，

用于应对人生中的其它关系和方方面面。

 

有人说爱情令人盲目，

而友谊却使人清醒。

感谢你走进我的生活,

并成为我生活的一部分。

 

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.

When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need
you have expressed outwardly or inwardly.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrong doing on your part
or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something
to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered
and it is now time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON,
it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
those things you must build upon
in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person/people (anyway);
and put what you have learned to use in all
other relationships and areas of your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being part of my life..... 

© Brian A. "Drew" Chalker

 

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