在Brian Tracy成功学书中,有这么一条人生定律:The Law of Reciprocity。 The Law of Reciprocity states that people are internally driven to be even , to reciprocate for anything done either to or for them. They will be willing to help achieve your goals only when you have demonstrated a willingne ...
最近在旧书摊上捡到一本Brain Tracy写的Eat that Frog: 21 Great Ways to Stop Procrastinating and Get More Done in Less Time,感觉很对胃口,于是买了Brain Tracy写的一些书,其中一本Maximum Achievement: Strategies and Skills That Will Unlock Your Hidden Powers to Succeed写得特别好。 书中讲到: ...
在At the Helm: A Laboratory Navigator一书中,作者描述了一个现象:在科研实验室,一个同学发了Nature,其他都很高兴,因为大家看到了自己的希望。但是作者说:这时候,如果导师说:“他发了Nature,你们每个人必须要发Nature才能毕业!”如此这般,周围的学生都不高兴了,因为人为设立了竞争标准。   ...