No, not me. I am not looking for a big brother, because I have one. It's YC! She wrote: (天哪,我多么想有一个哥哥,我做姐姐、做老 师真是做得很累! ) http://blog.sciencenet.cn/home.php?mod=spaceuid=531950do=blogid=504055
I write this in English, because I'm afraid of bothering my beloved Dad. Some aspect of my life sucks. It saps my energy and undermines the quality of my life. It makes me feel smaller and wish I hadn't participated. I wish I could just walk away from it, but I can't. I do like to transform every challenge into a gift, but, how? I'm reading a book,in which the author tell me unravel the nots in your life and reduce the size of your but... Plugging one leak at a time. Stop staying asleep in a nightmare, wake up! 没有自我、价值感的人, 会将把自己人生的“统治权”交给“别人”或者一些教条, 寻求外在的“认可”,把外在的东西,看得比内在重。 我们其实无需借助外力,我们有与生俱来的力量,只是从“洞”中流失了。 我们要做的只是甄别我们被灌输的观念,堵上漏洞。 重新掌握自己生活的选择权,停止“被动接受”或“半心半意” 力量之源在inside。 放下对外界的依赖,放下不能滋养自己的rotten eggs。