男人,是用一生做出来的,不是生出来的。 我还没资格说如何做个男人,但是我很想分享历史上最著名经典影片之一的 《教父》 中的几句经典台词,从中领会:什么是男人,如何做个男人! 最近发生砍杀小学生事件后,我发现重温这些话很有必要!不懂英文的找电影看吧! A man who doesn't spend time with his family can never be a real man. Don Corleone to Johnny Fontane Don Corleone : I hoped that we would come here and reason together. And as a reasonable man, I'm willing to do whatever's necessary to find a peaceful solution to these problems. Don Corleone : You talk about vengeance. Is vengeance gonna bring your son back to you and my boy to me? I forgo all the vengeance in my son. But I have selfish reasons. I'm a superstitious man, and if some unlucky accident should befall him, if he should get shot in the head by a police officer, or if he should hang himself in his jail cell, or if he's struck by a bolt of lightning, then I'm going to blame some of the people in this room. And that, I do not forgive. But that aside, let me say that I swear on the souls of my grandchildren, that I will not be the one to break the peace that we have made here today. Fredo, you're my older brother, and I love you. But don't ever take sides with anyone against the family again. Ever. Michael to Fredo MC: My father is no different than any other powerful man -- any man who's responsible for other people, like a senator or president. KAY: You know how naive you sound...senators and presidents don't have men killed. MC: Oh, who's being naive, Kay? Michael and Kay conversing Never tell anybody outside the family what you're thinking again. Don Corleone to Sonny Some day, and that day may never come, I will call upon you to do a service for me. But uh, until that day, accept this justice as a gift on my daughter's wedding day. Don Corleone to Bonasera It makes no difference to me what a man does for a living, understand. Don Corleone to Sollozzo I'm gonna make him an offer he can't refuse. Don Corleone to Johnny Fontane about Woltz Michael Corleone : There are many things my father taught me here in this room. He taught me: keep your friends close, but your enemies closer. Don Corleone: I spent my whole life trying not to be careless. Women and children can be careless. But not men .