“神龛”是供奉神像的,但是如果把人放上“神龛”,不但影响自己,也影响被放的人。 西方很多关于人生励志的书都不约而同地谈到了这个问题。 Ernie J. Zelinski写的101 Really Important Things You Already Know, But Keep Forgetting中第50课的标题为:Be Careful with Your Heros; Don't Put Any of Them on a ...
Alan H. Cohen在Why Your Life Sucks and What You Can Do About It一书中说,把自己生活搞糟的原因之一是为了取得公众承认而出卖自己的灵魂(You sell your soul for public recognition)。 本书写道: There are two types of people who become famous: those who pursue attenion and those who pursue their pas ...